The actress and her husband have been together for almost 20 years. Recently, he reportedly shared his perspective on her risqué choices in film and television, which can be tricky in a long-term relationship.
Nicole Kidman has an upcoming film titled “Babygirl,” where she stars alongside a much younger actor. Her character begins a steamy, age-gapped affair, and the actress’ explicit scenes have stirred heavy discussions from online users. Even her husband shared his own reaction.
Kidman and her spouse, Keith Urban, met in early 2005, and she knew he was the one within months. The pair married in 2006 in a romantic ceremony in Australia.
Today, the lovebirds have been married for 18 years and share two children. While their family life remains steady, Kidman and Urban continue to pursue bold paths in their careers.
The Grammy-Award-winning singer is still an important name in the country music scene, while the actress keeps taking on daring, headline-making roles. Recently, she’s been cast alongside much younger actors.
In 2021, the Oscar recipient starred in “A Family Affair,” a romantic comedy featuring a memorable, erotic scene with Zac Efron, now 37. Most remember the actor from “High School Musical.”
Zac Efron and Nicole Kidman on the set of “A Family Affair,” 2021 | Source: YouTube/Netflix
This light-hearted comedy role may come as a surprise, but Kidman, 57, has displayed many fearless choices over the years. She can adapt from serious, dramatic performances, to simpler characters that drive a good story.
Nicole Kidman on the set of “A Family Affair,” 2021 | Source: YouTube/Netflix
In August 2021, she shared that Urban fully supported her decisions as an actor and producer, which includes these kinds of scenes where she shows more skin than usual.
“My husband is an artist, so he understands all of it, and he also does not get involved,” the award-winning movie star explained. This may be the reason why Kidman decided to star in the upcoming erotic thriller “Babygirl,” set to premiere later this year. In this intense film, the Australian native takes on the role of a powerful CEO.
Eventually, she jeopardizes her career and family to have a romantic dalliance with her significantly younger intern, played by English actor Harris Dickinson, 28.
Harris Dickinson attends the world premiere of “Blitz,” 2024 | Source: Getty Images
In a recent interview, Kidman revealed the intensity of filming the movie, explaining that the role left her so “turned on” at times she needed to step back from production.
Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson on the set of “Babygirl,” 2024 | Source: YouTube/A24
Working closely with Dickinson and Antonio Banderas, 64, who plays her on-screen husband, the Emmy Award winner described the experience as “almost like a burnout.”
Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson on the set of “Babygirl,” 2024 | Source: YouTube/A24
“There was an enormous amount of sharing and trust and then frustration. It’s like, ‘Don’t touch me,'” Kidman added. Reflecting on this emotional toll, she even confessed, “I don’t care if I am never touched again in my life! I’m over it.”
Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson on the set of “Babygirl,” 2024 | Source: YouTube/A24
Despite the intense and intimate nature of the actress’s recent roles, Urban, 57, remains supportive and unfazed. According to a source, he’s learned to see her work as a form of “art,” understanding that “she is playing characters – she isn’t playing Nicole Kidman.”
Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson on the set of “Babygirl,” 2024 | Source: YouTube/A24
The insider added that Urban “isn’t wincing during these types of scenes” and keeps a respectful distance from his wife’s work. He focuses only on her schedule to coordinate family time with the actress and their children.
However, while the country singer supports Kidman’s artistic choices, the couple is careful about what their daughters, Sunday Rose, 16, and Faith Margaret, soon to turn 14, are exposed to.
Sunday and Rose Urban with Nicole Kidman, Antonia Kidman, and Craig Marran at the 49th AFI Life Achievement Award Gala Tribute celebrating Nicole Kidman on April 27, 2024, in Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images
An insider revealed, “Nicole is not ashamed in any way, but she doesn’t want them to see everything she does, to her kids, she is just mom.”
The source further noted that, just as the girls don’t attend all of Urban’s concerts, Kidman feels relieved knowing they aren’t subjected to some of her more revealing work.
Yet, some fans voiced strong reactions in response to Urban’s explanation of his wife’s latest on-screen role. “Keith has blinded his eye to what is right, justifying immoral behavior,” one user commented.
Another felt uncomfortable with Kidman’s candidness about her role. “Honestly, this is horrible to hear. Why would she share this kinda [sic] inappropriate information to the world?” questioned one person, calling it “distasteful” and “revolting.”
Nicole Kidman arrives at the Los Angeles premiere of “Lioness,” 2024 | Source: Getty Images
Some even questioned the effect on their marriage, with a user asking, “What’s the point of being married if you’re being into infidelity?”
Nicole Kidman and the actor at A24’s “Babygirl” Los Angeles special screening on October 18, 2024, in West Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images
Scheduled for a Christmas Day release in the US, “Babygirl” has already generated buzz for Kidman’s compelling performance. The film already earned her the prestigious Best Actress award after premiering at the Venice Film Festival.
As the actress and Keith Urban continue to navigate the challenges of fame, artistic expression, and family life, their relationship appears to be grounded in mutual respect and understanding.
Her bold career choices and the singer’s unwavering support showcase a modern approach to a partnership where individuality and artistic freedom coexist with family priorities.
While reactions from fans may be divided, the couple remains focused on what matters most to them: each other and their family. As Kidman’s career evolves, it’s clear that her commitment to authenticity, both on-screen and off, remains unshaken.